Humbleness from a Daughter of our Time …

 

Sue of Elephant's Child recently sadly departed … if anyone would like to see and hear the simple Service, particularly the words for her, I give the link below.

Dinah and her husband from NZ had been over to Australia a few years ago and were able to meet up with Sue and Graham in Canberra – hence their close connection.

Dinah has recently moved but was able to keep some of us in touch with the news re Sue … I seemed to be on that short list: which makes me feel very honoured.

I hope to get back to regular blogging shortly … so this is an interim post for us all to remember Sue – her posts were always full of light and positivity …

A Canadian rainbow

... this week we've had a few rainbows … when I immediately think of Sue as I look and admire nature in the sky …

So below is the link to her Service – which will be up and available for six+ months - while I've also linked to two January posts … her last birthday posts, but it features some of her favourites …

Himself's lap with cats settled in …

'Roos … a roo fix happened …

Murals … in which most featured birds can be found in her city …

Sulphur Crested Cockatoo

her birthday weekend post with real birds: Eastern Rosellas and Sulphur Crested Cockatoos … she was a Capricorn, as I am …

... and lots of yellow … the sun lets us live, while for Sue she loved the cold … when she featured her frozen bubbles, to which I've also linked ... with her thoughts ... 

A Crimson Rosella

... she offers us lots … including 'zombie brains' – courtesy of a bubble or two: appropriate as a thought at this time of year … and also as it's winter – her inner child felt happy and healthy … a few years ago.

Bless you Sue – it's been a pleasure knowing you, and I will remember your Elephant's Child blog … where you encouraged us with humility to stay young, to stay curious, not moan ... but help the next generation towards peace for all.

Narcissi - starting to bloom
in Canberra's Spring

Norwood Park, Canberra - for Sue's service of remembrance ...  

Her birthday weekend 2025 January post ... 

The next week's Sunday Selections post, before she took time off for her health ... 

One of her bubbles' posts in July 2018 ... 

Finally ... Sue's posts are entertaining to read, while she also has lots of books to recommend ... so it'll be worthwhile popping over occasionally, as we remember ... enjoy them!!

Thank you too particularly to Graham, Sue's partner, and to Dinah and her husband their friends in New Zealand ... for keeping us in touch ... 

Hilary Melton-Butcher

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For Sue - a beacon of warmth to all of us ...

 

She walked this earth, a light in hand...

Encouraging us to think of others …

She slipped away quietly, sadly, swiftly …

Sue - with her curiosity ...

Nothing was same old, same old for Sue …

She lived life to the full, even unto the end …

I know I will remember her for many a-year …

Sue's Canberra balloon

A beloved human with many an interest …

... the addiction that blogging becomes …

... begetting many blogger friendships …

Glories for the glorious
shining one ... 

Books, Birds, Bloggers, Food, Nature, Stories …

Art, Words, Balloons, 'Roos, Health …

... overcoming adversity when it arose … until the shadows came ...

Home for nature's creepy crawlies ... 

... always with truth to the fore, or tongue in cheek when a laugh was due, whichever was the most appropriate for the time … 'Himself' always being thought of …

With reflections and memories for her family - I shall miss her interactions ... 

Sue's blog:  Elephant's Child:  her last post ... - one that she did not know ... 

Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Smallhythe Place, Ellen Terry's beetle-wing dress, and other pics from my visit ...

 

Smallhythe Place … the half-timbered house built in the late 15^th or early 16^th centuries … which Ellen Terry, the Victorian actress bought in 1899 and used until her death in 1928 …

Smallhythe Place - front (obvious - sorry!)

... it is now a National Trust property housing many of her items … books (3,000 of them), theatre collections, memorabilia …

View of bedroom - showing brace holding
together corner of room

The house was probably built after a major fire in the harbour and village as it was in 1514 … being originally called 'Port House' …

Another view of the bedroom - again
highlighting the brace

... the property now covers sixty plus acres … including various houses, a theatre, barns, orchards, nuttery, gardens and marshland etc … unusually there's a cellar ... 

Some of the 3,000 books in the
library, others stored away;
the contain lots of marginalia

Back in the day … it was the main house and land in the area … which today it still is, as there are now only a few houses left in what is known as Smallhythe.

Ellen Terry's button box

The home is of a costly construct, with an overhanging upper storey … which over the years has been maintained – as you'll see in the bedroom pics above … it has been 'tied together' with iron braces … denoting the hand of a skilled carpenter/ blacksmith …

Now I'm just giving you some pics ... 

This is a money box made by the local Rye Pottery ... established in the 17th C ...

Staffordshire Pottery established c 1720s

A Staffordshire pottery watch stand ... the watch is put into the 'cup' at night ... so when reaching out the watch is easily available to see the time ... 

The Beetle Wing Dress - this is what we went to see ... amazing isn't it ...

The beetle (genus Sternocera) only lives 3 – 4 weeks, while only beetles, which when they've died naturally, are collected for their wings.

There was an exhibit of beetle wings, with some display pieces for visitors to admire in a more close-up situation ... 

Her banqueting dress used in
the performances of Hamlet

Ellen Terry, the English actress of the late 19^th and 20^th centuries, refused to wear anything heavy or constricting for her performances – which Alice Comyns Carr, designer, complied with in her designs and the fabrics selected …

Her make-up box

Ellen's original make-up box is on display ... 

Ellen Terry

A sculpture of Ellen Terry by Margaret Winser ... 

Margaret Winser was asked on Ellen Terry's death to make a mould, in order that death masks could be made ... 

Showing the danger of living near the 
local 'river' - that was a busy waterway
in the 1500s

The River Rother runs through East Sussex and Kent and was used for navigation from Roman times ...  

... over the centuries these relatively small streams have had interesting histories ...

A view of the back of Smallhythe Place ... as the marshes became silted up - they were turned into agricultural fields ... 

... then barns etc were added to accommodate the change of the estate's use ...

These are just a few of the pictures I took as we went round ... but they give an idea of the house and its contents ... 

My post from 2016 - gives more information on the Beetle-wing dress ... 

Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Smallhythe over the centuries ... coastline changes, shipyard building ...

 

Here's a very brief history of the rise of royal naval activities from the Anglo-Saxon period to the Medieval era … these depended on where the overseas attacks were happening … north sea areas (Vikings, Angles, Danes etc); Irish Sea areas (Ireland, Isle of Man and Anglesey, Scotland); south coast (Vikings, Danes and Normans) …

Sussex Coastline at Pevensey - c 340 AD
(west from Smallhythe/Tenterden/Rye area)

...from the 9^th century (1000 AD) onwards the English nations developed their naval skills, and we know what happened after 1066 AD … but then it appears that fleet mustering almost ceased to exist, possibly because of William the Conqueror's acumen …

But in the next two hundred years or so … the necessity for trade ensured shipbuilding continued, as did the necessity because of the conflict with the nations of Europe … France, Flanders, Venice, Portugal, the Moors … as and when.

Coastline c 1066 AD

The Hundred Years' War (1337 – 1453) included frequent cross-channel raids … and this was when each king started to develop naval fleets.

Maritime activity has been found at Smallhythe from 1326 … probably wool trade related ... but the fast flowing river, the local oak forests, sloping shores provided all that was needed for early shipbuilding.

Coastline before the storm of 1287
(Smallhythe's harbour is within that large
estuary ... as shown)

It is estimated that the River Rother at Smallhythe in Medieval England, during the 1300s, had a depth of about 6.5 metres (21 feet) at high tide, to 2 metres (6.5 feet) at low tide – enough for the largest vessels of the day.

So the development of a shipyard, today four direct miles inland from the sea, actually probably seven to eight miles by water through the marshes, made such a business possible.

Isle of Oxney - we could see from the house
(the marshes are now all silted up - as
agriculture took over)

Across the marshes and in the Pevensey Levels there are many islets, as you'll see here at Smallhythe – the Isle of Oxney is a relatively large island in the Rother Valley – ferry crossings were essential, before bridges and turnpikes started to appear.

The ferry at Oxney was crucial for the important trading town of Tenterden three miles upstream from Smallhythe, which continued to operate into the mid 1600s.

An illustration from the Anthony Roll (a
written record of ships in the Tudor Navy 
{c1540} named after its creator
Anthony Anthony)

The importance of Smallhythe as a shipbuilding centre was at its zenith in the 1400 - 1500s … with three kings placing work there in this era – Henry V, Henry VII and Henry VIII …

After Henry VIII visited in 1537 he commissioned further smaller vessels to be built for the nascence of 'the royal navy' … but with the ongoing silting up of the river and a major fire in 1515 destroying the settlement, its focus turned to agriculture …

Pevensey Levels - similar landscape to
that around Smallhythe

The coast line along the Sussex and Kent counties (as we know them today) was and is always changing, with the tides and storms … the Great Storm of 1287 hit the south coast with such ferocity that whole areas of coastline were redrawn …

I hope you can get an idea of the shipbuilding that occurred, as too the coastline changes that are shown in the various images …

This booklet gave me a lot of background about the history of Smallhythe, its royal connections to the development of the royal navy, and the coastal changes …

There'll be another one or two posts about my visit out to Smallhythe, but this gives an idea of the area that existed here from Norman times, to as we find it today …

Apologies that first image is blurry ... but I'm sure you can get the gist ... 

Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Quick Update - stress over ...

 

Thankfully flat stress is over … I now just need to adjust back to normality … things still need to be done – but the worst is over … thank goodness …

Obviously - a yellow rose!

So this is short and sweet … had a good trip out with friends on Wednesday to the hamlet Small Hythe – which was a medieval ship building port – it's now about four plus miles inland!  Post to follow!

We actually went to see Ellen Terry's beetlewing dress at her old home, now a museum, which displays her theatrical memorabilia and a small theatre. There's about 65 acres of property and land, including orchard …

St John's Church, Small Hythe -
the Priest's House next door, similar
in style to Ellen's home

I wrote quite a detailed post back in 2016 … I eventually ticked off the fact that I have now visited Smallhythe Place!

That's it … I'm mentally adjusting to being free from flat anxiety … amazing what can take it out of one – I now need to see what I can do to help myself before the medics appear on the horizon – they're there if I need them … but in the meantime, I need to do what I can.

The SeeSaw of life -
as painted by Francisco de Goya (1792)

Have happy bank holiday weekends – well we have one! It's going to be a warm time before the Autumn sets in …

So I'm a happier lady now … thanks for your support in the last few months …

Ellen Terry and her Iridescent Beetlewing Dress

Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Grumpy Hilary … or Fed Up lady …

 

Fed up most likely … I have hot water … now my landlady is flying in from Kenya to see what's happened … so I guess everything will be tipped upside down again … I am fractious … stressed out with the irritations and inroads into my life …

Wonderful scented roses

Friends and family have been saying for goodness sake get your health sorted out – but frankly with the flat scenario I haven't felt able to do both …

I buried my head in all five Kingsbridge series books – covering the dark ages of England 997 AD to ten years after Battle of Waterloo in 1824 … which gave an insight into life through the ages.

Four of his novels, the fifth was
recently published

I think it probably helped otherwise I'd have been fretting more than usual … and I have various references to use when our History subject changes in 2026 … we're doing the Medieval period now – but I'm not sure what our 'leader' and her humble subjects (us – the members) will select/choose next.

I was happy that AJ Sterkel (Read all the Things! Blog) chose Follett's masterpiece 'The Pillars of the Earth' … as one of her books to pull you out of a reading slump.

AJ Sterkel's header for her blog

Life as it continues has different perspectives on who one is in life … being single, as are my brothers, so no reason to be overly enthusiastic about family life ahead – yes, and yea, for other friends and family … but for me – I just do my thing.

Wiki's logo

I'm happy – I've had an interesting life … and am not on my way out yet (I don't think!) … so I'll stick where I am and doing what I enjoy and can do … getting out and about as much as possible – and reading rather more than I've done over my lifetime, so far.

Carstian Luyckx - art work of 1650

Personal historiography, as well as academic knowledge in the public domain via whatever tools were available to that era of life, which now is much broader than it used to be … and as I'm older (perhaps wiser too) more of life's history starts to fall into place …

So this little brain is full of jigsaw pieces of life through the ages … and grateful that essentially I'm just getting older – not mentally deteriorating, thankfully.

AJ Sterkel's image ...
'How to Reignite Your
Love of Reading'

I hope I can be left in peace to get on with my life … but as the year progresses we'll see … for now – my head is above water, screaming silently, and just wishing this period was away …

AJ Sterkel's link to her latest post ... I also suggest you read the previous one on the saddest books ... I really enjoy her lists ... 

Cheers to you all and thanks for your comments and thoughts …

Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Publishing … success, delays, or not …

 

With commercial success in 1978, followed by ten years writing more thrillers … the time came for a change …

English - first edition

... a historical novel … set in Medieval England … who would read – would his publishers be interested … ??

This was Ken Follett's idea … referenced in my recent talk about Cathedrals; his route to acceptance patently wasn't at all easy.

He wanted to write about Cathedrals and enjoyed the learning process about the Middle Ages … so he set to … ten years after his commercial success The Pillars of the Earth was ready to be taken up and published (1989).

Salisbury Cathedral - west end

Enthusiasm … not much … the British and Americans duly published, without much success – but some. Apparently the Italians accepted it … seemingly the Italians have been kind to him … here in the UK, in paperback, it was number one for one week: thrilling success?!?!

However his German editor, Walter Fritzche at Gustav Luebbe, had longed to publish a novel about building a cathedral. Understandably the Germans hadn't been too happy with Follett's thrillers – there's usually a German baddy involved … so to have a publisher from Germany who was excited about cathedrals – was a bonus.

Luebbe's logo

Luebbe duly published a German version … they hired Achim Kiel to do the cover … painter, graphic artist and sculptor … who took on the creative project … giving the German people something very special. Both had paid off … the German publishers, and the creative artist …

Then Pillars began to create a stir among other publishing nations … and as we know today is hugely successful.

As I read it I did notice a few anomalies … which in Wiki they've highlighted … squirrels don't hibernate (ours in the Medieval era would have been the red ones … we had some in our childhood Surrey garden); sugar would only have been available in courtly circles … until later in the 1300s; similarly hops would have been much later; then the idea of breakfast as a meal … we're not sure if that was eaten as such … but all in all – it gave us a view of life in the 1100s … certainly my talk got a nod of approval – though I didn't bring in those items … being a vaguely wise old owl!

German edition -
using Achim Kiel's 
cover art

I do recognise a few of the authors promoted by the Luebbe group... as linked below … where you can find more information. Apparently they have thirteen publishing brands, several thousand titles – fiction, non-fiction, children's and youth books, novels, audio and ebooks.

Their concept is stated on the Company's 'the why' they are what they are … it starts;

"The importance of narrative lies in its impact on and relationship with the people who experience it. This can be a thrilling adventure, an intimate dialogue, a diverting conversation, a yearning experience, and much more.”

Follett includes the Luebbe information in his Introduction – where he goes into how he wrote the book (nearly 8 pages of it) … I used some of it in my talk … these extras for me give that little bit more.

This seemed an appropriate post for August's IWSG – I'm a member … but don't participate – I enjoy seeing others' thoughts arising out of the question – this month: What is the most unethical practice in the publishing industry?

I'm looking forward to reading everyone's entries over on your IWSG posts …

Bastei Luebbe company information …

Wine and Cheese – arising from my Cathedral post …

Addendum: I obviously hadn't made it clear that the reason I wrote this post - was because it was the German publisher who took it up ... and from there it became the huge success it is today ... it's the German aspect for a British author was the main point of the post.

Hilary Melton-Butcher

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